Almost too often, men think that performing oral sex on their woman is just licking from start to finish. While this may be effective enough, there are a few things you can do to improve your dropping skills. You can't do this, however, if you don't have a thorough understanding of a woman's body. She doesn't have just one sensitising point when it comes to eating her, you have to take care of her.
Here are some tips that you should consider if you want to surprise your girlfriend every time you go down on her.
Don't start in the obvious places
Don't go straight into the vagina; this is the biggest frustration of all. When you have sex, you want to build tension through foreplay. The same should be done when performing oral sex. Start with the toes and then slowly work your way across her legs and thighs. When she wants you to focus on the vagina, don't. Carry on for a while on either side before settling down between her legs. Teasing can work wonders in bed.
Don't be in a hurry
If you say "Okay, it's my turn" after 5 minutes, you can trust her to swear to you in her mind. This really isn't something you want to rush. Take your time and this will work out well for you. You should only stop when she says it's time to stop. Do your thing until then.
Get a sense of rhythm
Your tongue shouldn't swirl like the blades of a helicopter from the start. Start by moving your tongue slowly from one side to the other or from the bottom to the top. The clitoris should not be aroused immediately. She will probably go crazy from all the tension that comes from not having touched her clitoris in the first 5 minutes of the act. When you finally focus your tongue on her clitoris, don't just lick it chaotically, as if you hate it.
Pacing is extremely important: start slowly and finish gloriously, but with a good rhythm.
Sit in a comfortable position
If you feel like your neck is about to crack, you're unlikely to do very well. Lie on your stomach and place a small pillow under her cervix. This will raise her genitals to a level where it won't be uncomfortable to do your job.
Don't leave those arms idle
Use your arms to stimulate other erogenous points such as her breasts, her back and the back of her neck. If you do everything by the book, you'll have to pray that the neighbours aren't home.
Oral sex is an art, and just like any other form of art, it needs constant improvement. Using these techniques will certainly raise the game in the bedroom. Whatever you do - and we feel we must mention this again - don't go straight for the vagina. It can be very annoying for a woman to have her boyfriend between her legs if he hasn't paved the way for it first.